A felicity theory when it comes to picking the one
"You set standards for the guy of your dreams, but you know what, he's always the exception."
it's true. you wait patiently for the right one to come while holding on to your preferences yet, here he is in front of you and he didn't even pass half of your predilection. but you guys mesh well. so trash the preferences. scratch the list. he's an exception. but here's the thing, even if you do mesh well, there's always reality. it won't leave you. not all good relationships get a fairy tale story. the villain will always be reality. it's not a bad thing to let your mind think before letting your heart love. love doesn't always give us happy endings but sometimes when you choose well, you might just get a happily ever after story.